Q: How do I adjust during the first few weeks of school?

A: The first few weeks are always difficult, being away from home and trying to make new friends can be a challenge. It is very important to make an effort to meet new people and go to events when they are going on. Joining clubs and on campus organizations are a great way to meet people. At first it can be very intimidating to approach people you have never met before, but you have to go out of your comfort zone in order to pursue friendships and hobbies on campus. There are lots of people to see and things to do on campus, so if some things are not your cup of tea, it is crucial to not get down on yourself, because there are always other options to look into. Making friends in your classes and organizing study groups is another great way to get people together. It is very important to do your best and not be intimidated by fear of being rejected by people, and to remember that everyone is also looking for new friends and things to do.

Along with doing your best to be social around campus, you also have to remember about your academics, after the first few weeks course work will begin to pick up and you have to make sure that you don’t wind up with too much on your plate or you will end up missing assignments. Having friends in your class helps with this, but it is ultimately on you to make sure that you stay ahead of your work so that you can enjoy your free time to the ebay of your ability. Finding a balance between your social and academic life can be difficult, but as long as you stay optimistic and try to stay on top of it, I am sure that you will have no problems once the semester picks up.

There are fun things to do on and off campus, taking the PATH to New York City is a

great way to spend a day trip with your friends. If you want to stay in Hoboken and are sick of the dining hall food, there are many great options all across Hoboken for you to choose from. Visiting Bagels on the Hudson late at night is always a good option for when you are hungry. The Newport Mall is easily accessible via the light rail, with a ton of stores, restaurants, and a movie theater. If you play your cards right, you will never be bored at Stevens, and these first few weeks will be a piece of cake! I wish you luck in your endeavors, and I am sure that you will power through.

Best,

Ethan