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Breaking bread, breaking stereotypes

At first glance, the idea of eating with your hands might seem unusual — especially in a campus setting like Stevens, where the dining hall is filled with forks, spoons, and knives. Yet across the world, using one’s hands to eat isn’t just normal — it’s cultural, scientific, and deeply human. From Indian thalis and Ethiopian injera to Middle Eastern mezze and Filipino kamayan feasts, eating with your hands is a centuries-old tradition rooted in mindfulness, connection, and even better digestion.

When you eat with your hands, your fingers act as sensory guides. The moment you touch your food, your brain receives signals that prepare your stomach for digestion — saliva production increases, and enzymes start activating. This process makes digestion smoother and more efficient. It’s a kind of “pre-digestion” that utensils can’t replicate.

In Ayurveda, an ancient Indian health system, each finger represents one of the five elements — earth, water, fire, air, and space. Bringing food to your mouth with your hands is said to harmonize these elements, grounding your body and enhancing the eating experience. Even outside spirituality, research shows that tactile interaction with food encourages mindful eating, helping people feel full sooner and enjoy meals more consciously.

Unfortunately, Western dining norms have long stigmatized eating with hands as “unsanitary” or “uncivilized.” These stereotypes often stem from cultural bias rather than fact. In reality, eating with your hands is no less hygienic than using utensils — what matters is washing your hands, just as you would clean a fork before eating.

At Stevens, where our community thrives on diversity, it’s important to challenge these misconceptions. Many students from South Asian, African, or Middle Eastern backgrounds may hesitate to eat traditional meals in public for fear of judgment. Yet campus dining spaces should be places of comfort, not conformity. Eating with your hands isn’t something to hide; it’s something to embrace.

Imagine a “Cultural Eats” day at Pierce Dining Hall — tables lined with banana leaves, fresh naan, soft injera, or steaming dumplings, inviting students to experience the authenticity of different cultures through touch and taste. Instead of forks, students could use their hands (after washing, of course) to enjoy the meal as it’s traditionally eaten.

Here are some great foods to try by hand:

  • Indian curries with naan or rice: Tear a piece of naan, scoop a bit of curry, and savor the warmth and texture together.
  • Ethiopian injera platters: Use pieces of the soft, spongy bread to pick up lentils, vegetables, or meats.
  • Middle Eastern mezze: Hummus, falafel, and pita are perfect finger foods for shared meals.
  • Filipino kamayan (boodle fight) feasts: A communal dining style where rice, meats, and vegetables are laid on banana leaves, encouraging everyone to eat together — no utensils required.
  • Caribbean doubles or roti wraps: Soft, handheld foods that are best enjoyed without the interruption of metal cutlery.

Eating with your hands is about more than just food — it’s about connection. It encourages conversation, community, and appreciation for culture. It invites us to slow down, feel the warmth of freshly cooked food, and share it openly with others.

At Stevens, where innovation meets humanity, embracing such cultural practices can make our campus more inclusive and globally aware. Next time you grab a meal, skip the fork — let your hands do the work. You might just find that food tastes a little better that way.